Rainbows,
Puppies and Children
Reasons to Be Thankful
by Linda Spangle,
RN, MA
Have you ever noticed
how easy it is to overeat on a day when everything goes wrong?
But wait! Eating is NOT the only solution. Instead of letting
a bad day pull you down, start focusing on the good things around
you and use them to overshadow your challenges.
Here in America, Thanksgiving
Day encourages us to remember and celebrate all the things we
are grateful for and appreciate. When youre struggling
with rainy days and whiny children, brighten your spirits by
looking for rainbows instead of clouds.
Find the Rainbows
Even in the middle of
a really bad time in your life, you can always find a few things
to appreciate. Start by watching for positive things that show
up when you werent looking for them. Label these tiny bright
spots as rainbowsgifts that slip in quietly, giving you
an emotional boost right in the middle of an otherwise difficult
day.
Cultivate a sense of gratitude
about the simple things that happen in your life. Be thankful
each time that your children arrive home safely after school.
At bedtime, appreciate your cozy blanket and the way your pillow
fluffs up under your head. Pay attention to these rainbows and
consider all the ways they help you feel better.
Gratitude Journal
Now take this another
step and start writing down all the things you are thankful for.
Call this your gratitude journal or your rainbow list. Watch
for bits of joy, kindness and beauty that cross your path. Keep
your notebook handy this week and record all of these special
things.
Put your favorite people,
events or places on your gratitude list. Include your friends
and family members, then add acquaintances such as the friendly
neighbor who always waves as you drive past. Think about the
subtle rainbows such as the person who delivers your mail during
the middle of a snowstorm or the grocery clerk who slips your
eggs into a separate bag to protect them from breaking.
Review Your Blessings
Fill in some of your journal
pages with great memories and events from the past. Recall favorite
books that give you great insight or music artists who move you
to tears. At the end of each day, read from your gratitude journal
and celebrate whats good in the world.
Anytime youre tempted
to eat away a bad day, get grateful instead. Mentally rehearse
your gratitude list during times when youre stuck in traffic
or bored with the train ride. Youll discover you can instantly
change your attitude as well as your actions by simply ignoring
the rain and instead, focusing on the good things in your life.
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About the Author:
Linda Spangle is a weight-management
specialist recognized as a leading authority on emotional eating.
She is the author of 100 Days of Weight Loss and the award-winning
book Life is Hard, Food is Easy. A registered nurse with a master's
degree in health education, Linda Spangle is a skilled teacher,
counselor and writer. She is the owner of Weight Loss for Life,
a healthy lifestyles coaching and training program located in
Denver, Colorado. Linda has been featured on Fox News, Lifetime
TV and The O'Reilly Factor as well numerous radio shows and magazines
including Shape, Redbook and Fitness. For more information visit
http://www.foodiseasy.com/
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